Dominant or Submissive Personality Quiz

A personality-based test by Soulbot

Discover your natural role: Are you more dominant, more submissive or a true balance? 

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Am I dominant or submissive?” you’re in the right place. This simple dominant or submissive personality quiz helps you uncover your natural behavioural style in relationships, at work, and in social settings. 

It’s not a clinical diagnosis; it’s a chance to reflect honestly, have fun, and gain insight into your preferences when it comes to leadership, follow-through, and everything in between. 

Calculating your result…

This quiz isn’t here to define you, it’s here to help you understand yourself better.

It’s designed to bring more awareness, compassion, and clarity to your natural patterns. How you lead, respond, and connect with others.

A few things to keep in mind 

  • This quiz is for self-reflection, not a psychological assessment. 
  • If you’re working through relationship dynamics (intimate, professional or personal) and want more support, consider checking out professional guidance here. 
  • Your result isn’t fixed for life, our behaviour changes with context. This is a snapshot of where you are now. 
  • Want to learn more about personality styles and how they shape our interactions? Explore our deeper guide on dominance and submission.

🤔 Why take this Dominant or Submissive personality quiz?

  • This test helps you understand your dominant or submissive personality style.

  • It shows how you naturally behave in relationships, teamwork, and decision-making.

  • Knowing your style improves communication, confidence, and role clarity.

  • It’s based on psychological research about dominance and submission in everyday life.

  • At the end, you’ll get one of three result profiles:
    Dominant Leader, Balanced Partner, or Supportive Follower each with practical tips for daily life.

what makes us different

What are the Different Types of Spectrum?

Understanding your dominant or submissive personality style helps you see how you naturally interact, lead, and connect with others.

Dominant Leader

Dominant Leader is someone who enjoys taking initiative, making decisions, and guiding others. They naturally take charge and find satisfaction in responsibility and achievement.
Primary traits: Confident, assertive, decisive
Strengths: Leadership, direction, confidence, structure
Challenges: May need to balance control with empathy
Explore more: Dominant Personality Page

Balanced Partner

Balanced Partners lead or follow depending on what’s needed, creating harmony and understanding in any environment.
Primary traits: Adaptive, fair, emotionally intelligent
Strengths: Collaboration, balance, diplomacy, emotional awareness
Challenges: Avoiding over-adaptation or indecision
Explore more: Balanced Partner Personality

Supportive Follower

Supportive Follower is the one with a steady, compassionate presence in any group. They thrive in supportive roles and build emotional trust with others.
Primary traits: Empathetic, loyal, cooperative
Strengths: Empathy, teamwork, stability, listening
Challenges: Setting boundaries, self-assertion
Explore more: Supportive Follower Personality Page

The goal isn’t to change who you are but to understand your behavioral strengths so you can communicate better, lead effectively, and maintain balance in your relationships.

🧡 Soulbot’s Voice = Your Safe Space

Each personality type contributes something unique. For deeper insight into dominance, submission, and balance in personality psychology, explore here.

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We made this test for the explorers. The curious. The questionnaires. And the quietly brave.

🧪 How This Test Works?

We’ve made the process feel more like a conversation than a quiz.

Step 1

✅ You’ll answer 15 simple questions with three options each

Step 2

✅ Be honest there are no right or wrong answers.

Step 3

✅ Get your Soulmap result with clear, actionable insights.

Your results will help you:

  • See whether you naturally lean more dominant, submissive, or balanced in your interactions.
  • Understand how your communication and decision-making style shapes relationships.
  • Reflect on how your behaviour changes across different roles and situations.
  • Gain words and clarity to talk about your authentic style with others.

 

We don’t box you into a label. This Dominant or Submissive Personality Quiz simply gives you a clearer view of how you show up in life and relationships.

FAQ

Frequently Asked Questions

We receive many questions. The most frequently asked questions will be placed here so you can find the answers you are looking for.

It is a quick self-assessment that shows whether your natural style leans dominant, submissive, or balanced in everyday situations.

You answer short behavior-based questions that reflect how you communicate, lead, and respond to others.

Yes, many people have a mix of both traits depending on their mood, setting, or relationships.

It means you can adapt easily. You know when to take charge and when to follow.

No, it also helps you understand your personality in friendships, teamwork, and decision-making.

It helps you become more self-aware so you can express your needs clearly and connect better with others.

They are meant for reflection, not labeling. The quiz helps you understand patterns rather than define them.

You can discover how your natural style affects confidence, boundaries, and leadership in daily life.

Yes, it improves understanding and communication by showing how you share control and support.

Accept it with an open mind. Each trait has strengths that can help you grow and connect authentically.

Submissive Personality

Gentle and supportive. You bring calm energy and emotional depth to every space.

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Balanced Personality

Grounded and fair-minded. You value harmony, empathy, and shared understanding.

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Dominant Personality

Driven and decisive. You lead naturally, think fast, and act with purpose.

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Homosexual —
True North, Same-Gender

Your love compass points to people of the same gender.

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Restless and always in motion. May talk fast, act quickly, or jump between ideas. 

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High Likelihood
ADHD Combined Type (ADHD-C)

Shows both inattentive and hyperactive traits where focus shifts, energy spikes, and motivation come in waves.

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Low Likelihood
ADHD Inattentive Type (ADHD-I)

Often loses focus and misses details, with drifting thoughts that leave tasks unfinished.

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🔧 The Virtuoso - ISTP

Hands-On Expert

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📋 The Logistician - ISTJ

Steady Rock

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🌻 The Adventurer - ISFP

Gentle Spirit

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🛡️ The Defender - ISFJ

Caring Guardian

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🤔 The Logician - INTP

Curious Explorer

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🏛️ The Architect - INTJ

Strategic Mastermind

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🦄 The Mediator - INFP

Gentle Idealist

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🔮 The Advocate - INFJ

Quiet Visionary

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🚀 The Entrepreneur - ESTP

Action Hero

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📊 The Executive - ESTJ

Results Driven

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🎭 The Entertainer - ESFP

Life of the Party

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🤗 The Consul - ESFJ

Heart of Gold

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🧠 The Debater - ENTP

Mental Gymnast

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👑 The Commander - ENTJ

Strategic Powerhouse

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🎨 The Campaigner - ENFP

Creative Visionary

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🌟 The Protagonist - ENFJ

Natural Born Leader

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🤗 Physical Touch

Hugs Over Hype

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🕰 Quality Time

Presence Over Presents

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🎁 Receiving Gifts

Thoughtful Tokens, Big Feelings

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🤝 Acts of Service

Love in Action

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Words of Affirmation

You Speak from the Heart

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Gay, Lesbian, or
Queer and Proud

Your love compass points to the same gender

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Bisexual -
Go with the Flowy

Your love compass swings in the middle

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Heteroflexible —
Some Wiggle in the Compass

You’ve got a touch of bi-curiosity

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Hetero -
Straight Up Honest

Your love compass points to the opposite sex.

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