🛠️ You feel loved when someone shows up not just in words, but in action.
When someone folds your laundry without asking, preps your favorite meal, or handles a task so you can rest, that’s love in motion for you. You believe love isn’t just something you say, it’s what you do when no one’s watching.
Because your brain connects effort to care.
If someone goes out of their way to lighten your load, it tells you:
“I see you. I’ve got you. You don’t have to do this alone.”
You may not ask for help easily, but when someone gives it without being told, you feel deeply cared for and safe.
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Don’t feel guilty for needing help; it’s how you feel loved.
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Let others know what tasks make a difference for you.
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Notice how your acts of service are your way of saying “I love you.”
When you’re ready to unpack how effort, burnout, and love are tangled in your heart, SoulBot is here to hold that space.
Even if your love language feels like an act of service, there are still layers to explore. Let’s talk about those things, without judgment or assumptions, just in space to be honest.
Because love, for you, is visible in what people do. It feels hollow if someone says they care but leaves you alone to handle everything. You’re not needy. You’re asking for a partnership.
Not at all. Words might be lovely to some, but you find love in effort. Wanting someone to step in rather than just speak up is entirely valid.
Say it this way: “I feel most cared for when someone lightens my load, even the small stuff.” You’re not demanding. You’re inviting them into your world.
Because you’re probably used to being the helper. And asking for help feels like a weakness. But it’s not. Letting others help you is how you let them love you.
You’re not here to prove anything. You’re here to understand yourself, and you already took that step.
Let’s keep going, whenever you’re ready.
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