Sexual Orientation Self Dicovery Test

A personality-based sexual orientation test by Soulbot

Have you ever asked yourself, “What is my sexual orientation?”

Maybe you’re curious, perhaps you’re questioning, or you’re just looking for clarity.

At Soulbot, self-discovery should feel natural and empowering, not clinical or confusing. Our sexual orientation self-discovery test is designed to help you explore who you’re attracted to emotionally, romantically, and physically in a simple, friendly, and safe way.

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This sexual orientation self-discovery test isn’t here to tell you who you are.

It’s here to help you better understand your feelings, attractions, and patterns with compassion.

Through thoughtful, psychology-based questions, Soulbot helps you reflect on:

🧠 Your emotional connections: Who do you bond with deeply?

❤️ Romantic attraction: Who makes your heart skip a beat?

🔥 Physical attraction: Who are you physically drawn to, and how often does it shift?

🔄 Sexual fluidity: Are your preferences more fixed or flexible?

 

Instead of boxing you into a label, we help you gently explore what might resonate with you in control.

🤔 Why Take a Sexual Orientation Test?

  • Because it’s okay to not have it all figured out.
  • Because Questioning is valid.
  • Because labels can be helpful or not, and that’s entirely your choice.


This test is perfect if:

  • You’re questioning your sexuality or identity
  • You feel “in-between” or outside of traditional categories
  • You want language to describe your experiences
  • You’re just curious about where you fall on the sexual orientation spectrum

 

Whether you’re 15 or 50, this quiz can be a powerful step in self-awareness.

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What are the Types of Sexual Orientation?

Sexual orientation is about who you’re attracted to emotionally, romantically, or physically. It’s not always black and white, and that’s okay. Here are some common types of sexual orientation to help you understand the spectrum:

Heterosexual (Straight)

Attracted to the another gender.

Homosexual (Gay or Lesbian)

Attracted to the same gender.

Bisexual

Attracted to more than one gender - can be emotional, romantic, or sexual.

Pansexual

Attracted to individuals regardless of their gender identity or presentation.

Asexual

Experiences little or no sexual attraction. Some still feel romantic attraction.

Demisexual

Only experiences sexual attraction after developing a deep emotional bond.

Queer

A broad, inclusive term for anyone who doesn’t identify as strictly heterosexual or cisgender.

🔍 Still exploring or unsure of your sexual orientation, and that’s valid, too.

There are many shades in between. Some people find comfort in a label; others don’t. The important thing is understanding what feels true for you. Explore more on sexuality in our blog guide – What’s my Sexuality?

🧡 Soulbot’s Voice = Your Safe Space

At Soulbot, we don’t judge, diagnose, or define.

We simply guide. You won’t find any cold, robotic quiz results here. What you will find is warmth, honesty, and content created with input from:

Mental health writers

LGBTQ+ advocates

Self-reflection experts

We made this sexual orientation self-discovery test for the explorers.

The curious, the questionnaires, and the quietly brave.

🧪 How This Test Works?

We’ve made the process feel more like a conversation than a quiz.

Step 1

✅ Answer a set of introspective, scenario-based questions.

Step 2

✅ Reflect on how you feel emotionally, romantically, and physically.

Step 3

✅ Receive a personalised insight SOULMAP report that gently suggests possible orientations.

Step 4

✅ Learn how your preferences align with terms like bisexual, pansexual, heterosexual, asexual, or queer - only if you want.

No pressure. No tracking. No awkward definitions.

Your results will help you:

  • Understand where your emotional and physical attractions align (or don’t)
  • Explore possible identities without commitment or pressure
  • Reflect on whether your attraction patterns are consistent or fluid
  • Gain language and perspective for conversations with yourself or others

 

We don’t give you a single-word label. We offer you a clearer view of your authentic self.

FAQ

Frequently Asked Questions

Start by reflecting on your emotional, romantic, and physical attractions. Soulbot’s test is a great place to begin that journey without pressure or judgment.

Yes, it’s completely normal. Sexual orientation can evolve, and questioning at any age is valid.

Bisexual means attraction to more than one gender. Pansexual means interest regardless of gender. Some people relate to both; others prefer one term.

Asexuality is a lack of little or no sexual attraction. Demisexuality means attraction only develops after an emotional connection.

Mental health in the workplace starts with creating an open and empathetic environment. Encourage conversations around wellness, and consider offering tools like SoulBotTherapy. Many organisations find that providing access to AI therapy fosters a positive, resilient, and more productive work culture.

Emotional and physical attractions don’t always align – and that’s okay. The test helps you see how both play a role in your identity.

Absolutely. Labels can be useful, but they’re never required. You’re free to just be yourself without explanations.

For some, yes. It’s called fluidity, and it’s a valid experience. Identity is personal, not fixed.

That’s perfectly fine. Many people feel “in-between” or unique in how they experience attraction. Your identity is yours to define or not define.

Yes. Your answers are not stored, tracked, or shared. This sexual orientation self-discovery test experience is completely private and meant only for your sexual orientation self-discovery.

There are online quizzes designed to help you explore your sexuality, but they aren’t absolute answers. Sexuality is deeply personal and multifaceted so no quiz can define it for you; it’s more about self-discovery.

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Hands-On Expert

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📋 The Logistician - ISTJ

Steady Rock

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🌻 The Adventurer - ISFP

Gentle Spirit

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🛡️ The Defender - ISFJ

Caring Guardian

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🤔 The Logician - INTP

Curious Explorer

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🏛️ The Architect - INTJ

Strategic Mastermind

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🦄 The Mediator - INFP

Gentle Idealist

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🔮 The Advocate - INFJ

Quiet Visionary

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🚀 The Entrepreneur - ESTP

Action Hero

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📊 The Executive - ESTJ

Results Driven

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🎭 The Entertainer - ESFP

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🤗 The Consul - ESFJ

Heart of Gold

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🧠 The Debater - ENTP

Mental Gymnast

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👑 The Commander - ENTJ

Strategic Powerhouse

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🎨 The Campaigner - ENFP

Creative Visionary

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🌟 The Protagonist - ENFJ

Natural Born Leader

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🤗 Physical Touch

Hugs Over Hype

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🕰 Quality Time

Presence Over Presents

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🎁 Receiving Gifts

Thoughtful Tokens, Big Feelings

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🤝 Acts of Service

Love in Action

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Words of Affirmation

You Speak from the Heart

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Gay, Lesbian, or
Queer and Proud

Your love compass points to the same gender

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Bisexual -
Go with the Flowy

Your love compass swings in the middle

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Heteroflexible -
Some Wiggle in the Compass

You’ve got a touch of bi-curiosity

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Hetero -
Straight Up Honest

Your love compass points to the opposite sex.

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